Why Do We Fasten Tin Cans to Newlyweds’ Car Bumpers?
Some wedding traditions are more bizarre than others.
- Throwing rice at the bride and groom when they leave the reception in their chosen transportation
- The Korean custom of beating the groom’s feet the night before the wedding
- The Massai tradition of the father of the bride spitting on his daughter
- The German ritual dubbed “Polterabend” where the bride and groom smash the new dishes they just received
Other customs are more confusing than downright weird. For example, why do wedding guests fasten tin cans to the bumper of the just-wed couple’s car?
The Story Behind the Ritual
Some say this custom stems from the early American frontier tradition of “shivaree” which was practiced into the early 1900s. The settlers, in turn, modified this tradition from a French one called “charivari,” which targeted out-of-town grooms. The local residents would visit the happy couple’s abode on the wedding night to demand that the groom give them a meal, as “payment” for taking one of the local girls as his wife and narrowing the town’s dating pool.
When French settlers immigrated to America in the 1600s, they introduced the custom in the Mississippi Valley region, where the custom took root. Grooms would try to deter the “shivaree” practice by appeasing the wedding guests with a huge feast, such as a lavish barbecue.
The modern custom of tying tin cans to the car is thought to be an alternative way for the groom to assuage his male friends for missing out on their chances with the bride. After all, the groom’s bros are typically the ones who actually fasten the tin cans to the car bumper.
An Additional Origin of the Custom
Another source of the tin can ritual hails from England, during the Tudor period. Wedding guests would throw their shoes at the newlyweds’ carriage as they departed the ceremony. Each shoe that hit the vehicle meant good luck for the just-hitched couple.
Today, we’ve modified the custom with cans. Because who wants to give up one of their shoes? Also, throwing anything at a passing car could be grounds for a contemporary lawsuit, hence the tying objects (tin cans) to the car’s bumper instead of throwing them.
Whitney Russell resides in Dayton, though her spirit can be found beach-bumming in Puerto Rico (the land of her half-Puerto Rican heritage). When not crafting car-related content, she can be found chasing after the most amazing toddler in the world, watching her “beaver” of a husband build amazing woodworking projects, hanging out with two crazy dogs, and visiting family and friends. She also enjoys traveling, crafting, and binge-watching period dramas when time allows. See more articles by Whitney.